Thank you to Bernadette Coveney Smith, Founder of Gay Wedding Institute, for her article: Who’s the Bride? And Other Things Not to Say to Same-Sex Couples. Repost from HuffPost Weddings.
I’ll never forget the day that I went for a cake tasting with a pair of my brides. We arrived to a bakery where I’d been plenty of times before and had great experiences. When she saw us, the assistant who greeted us that day said, “So, which one of you is the bride?”
I get it. Three women. Surely one of them must be the bride, another the maid of honor and the third a sister or the planner – or anyone but another bride. Right?
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