Where were you on September 11, 2001?

I remember exactly where I was that day, teaching a Spanish class via compressed video to another community college.  My tech support guy ran in and switched the channel of the broadcast monitor to the Today Show.  My classes locally and remotely just sat and stared in shock at the monitors and I had to dismiss class early.  After class, I kept trying to call my boyfriend in New York on my cell, but I couldn’t get through.  Finally, he called me and said, “I don’t want to tie up the lines, but I am OK”.  I was never so relieved in my life.

Beacon of Light & Hope from Ground Zero (Photo from www.maggiesnotebook.com)

September 11 changed many lives forever - in the most cruel and horrible ways.  It also dramatically changed air travel.  I was scheduled to fly to Washington, DC the week or two after for a doctoral degree meeting at George Mason University and to meet my boyfriend.  I still had to attend the meeting, but my airport, Washington National, was closed.  US Airways rerouted me to and from Washington-Dulles instead.  I have to say that was the most quiet air travel itinerary of my life.  The planes were eerily quiet with very few passengers and I could feel the fear around me. Once I arrived at Dulles, no one was in the terminals.  You could have heard a pin drop it was so deathly quiet.  On the return, I remember seeing guard-like police with guns everywhere and the beginning of the invasive searches and patdowns that have become commonplace today.

For a short time, my flights to and from New York to connect with my boyfriend were also different.  For what seemed like forever, I could still see the dust and smoke at Ground Zero when I flew into LaGuardia.  But gradually, over time, the area became dark.  There was always a moment of silence and a sense of togetherness among the passengers on my New York flights.  People were more quiet, sensitive, kind and polite to each other.  The tragedy brought us together in a way that no other event has.

There are so many feeling stirred up inside of me as I write this, 10 years later.  I am still brokenhearted for the families who lost loved ones.  I long for the freedom I once felt when I flew.  I wish people were still as kind to each other now as we were in the months following September 11, instead of so politically divisive.  Indeed, September 11 changed this nation and we see and feel the effects in our lives every, single day.

Beth Smith
C’est Beth Personal Travel Assistant

TIP TUESDAY: Book Airfare Like a Pro

If there is anything I have learned over the last few weeks and during this Hurricane Irene weekend, it’s that many of us are guilty of this:  we assume our flight itinerary will operate as scheduled.  However, the odds against a perfect flight itinerary are very slim.

Frustrated Traveller (Photo from www.theaustralian.com.au)

Case in Point #1:  A friend of mine and her family planned and booked a group cruise vacation themselves.  I followed the saga on facebook.  Apparently, they booked the cheapest possible option, a once-per-day non-stop flight on low-cost carrier the day of the cruise.  Two mistakes were made:  booking on an airline that only flies to your destination once per day and booking their travel on the day of the cruise.  What ended up happening was that the flight was so delayed due to a mechanical problem that they missed their cruise with the rest of the group.  The airline didn’t try to assist them at all because they fulfilled their part of the travel, they got them there the day they were scheduled to arrive, albeit late.  The cruise company tried to accommodate them on another cruise the following day and the day after but they were overbooked, so my friend and her parents ended up spending the week at a hotel in Fort Lauderdale until the rest of their cruise group returned the following weekend.  Luckily, the parents had purchased cruise insurance but their kids had not, so they also lost their cruise money.

Case in Point #2:  A friend of mine contacted me last night about advice regarding a complicated, multi-airline flight itinerary his friend had booked on a third-party travel website.  Due to Hurricane Irene, his first flight had been canceled and was going to jeopardize the entire remainder of the itinerary.  He tried calling the various airlines that flew the flights in his itinerary and none of them would help because, when you purchase from a third-party travel website, they become your travel agent.  Therefore, the customer had to call the third-party website’s outsourced telephone support and wait hours on hold to speak to someone.

Travel Tip #1:  When booking an airline ticket to an event (like your honeymoon, a cruise, a show, etc.) that can’t be missed, book the flight to arrive at least one day in advance, select an airline that has multiple options to your destination and don’t take the last flight there.

Travel Tip #2:  When booking an airline ticket for a trip that is complicated and/or involves multiple airlines and connections, either book directly with the airline(s) or with a reputable travel agent.

Travel Tip #3:  If you are booking a trip of a lifetime or an expensive trip, consider travel insurance.

Our Travel Messiah, Beth Smith, will introduce you to places you have only dreamed about.  Please follow Beth on facebook and twitter or visit her website or read more of her travel musings on her blog.

S-E-X Articles ~ Poll Results

We want to thank our fabulous writers for all their amazing S-E-X articles from August 19!  It was a fun and adventurous day of reading for theBrideScoop readers!!!

If you have not read their submissions, please click below for each article:
- Bobby Brooks:  Take Your Sex Game Up A Notch
- From the Editor:  What does sexy look like?
- Gourmet Rambler:  FOOD FRIDAY: Edible Aphrodisiacs = More Sex?
- Jim Knoes:  Farmers Market ~ A Bedtime Noir
- Himmel Ink:  Sex & Love Advice for My Unborn Son
- Man About Town:  Getting a Handle on a Good Time
- Michael Faltum:  The Sex Talk (with my Editor)
- Paul Saini:  Get Sexy! Bridal Boudoir Photography
- TraveLin:  Sexy Sail Haiku
- Travel Messiah:  Spice up your sex life with travel!

Drum roll please!

CONGRATULATIONS to Travel Messiah a/k/a Beth Smith of C’est Beth Personal Travel Assistant.  And close follow ups:  Michael Faltum and Gourmet Rambler!

We look forward to another special day of writings in September.  Stay tuned.

TIP TUESDAY: Planning a vacation? Don’t!

If you are planning a vacation - just stop it!  I don’t mean don’t go, I mean stop planning it.  Book your transportation and a place to sleep but let everything else just happen.

Believe me, I am the world champion when it comes to organization and planning.  It’s why I am a good travel manager - I make your flights, transportation, hotel and car rental all come together effortlessly.  However, a vacation is supposed to be a time to relax and unwind.  It’s taken my boyfriend of 14 years to teach me that planning a vacation is an oxymoron.

Cruising Around Palm Beach (Photo by Beth Smith)

Case in point.  Last weekend, we took one of our quickie weekend trips to the Palm Beach, Florida area.  On Saturday morning, I said, “So what are we doing today?” and he said, “We’re getting in the car and exploring.”  So we did and we had one of the best days ever - all unplanned!

We ate a late buffet breakfast at our hotel, the Hilton Singer Island (gotta love a hotel that serves breakfast until noon!), then explored the Palm Beach area in our Alamo-provided 2011 Chevrolet HHR.  We stumbled upon MacArthur Beach State Park on Singer Island and shared a café mocha at Paris in Town Le Café in North Palm Beach.  We drove from North Palm Beach to West Palm Beach by way of Dixie Highway (U.S. Highway 1), not the interstate, then turned east (can’t tell you the route!) and ended up in the ritzy Palm Beach resort area, where we took a walk on the beach and admired the perfectly pruned lawns and bushes that give those huge mansions some privacy from the road traffic.  We made our way west and somehow found ourselves on Clematis Street in West Palm Beach where we enjoyed an early dinner at Don Ramón Cuban Cuisine and sampled four beers each at World of Beer.

So for your next vacation or even your next weekend at home, try this:  Don’t set an alarm, get up when you feel like it, get in your car and just drive (preferably on a side road), eat when you’re hungry, drink when you’re thirsty and just stop and explore whatever piques your interest.

Take a break, let go, breathe, live.

Our Travel Messiah, Beth Smith, will introduce you to places you have only dreamed about.  Please follow Beth on facebook and twitter or visit her website or read more of her travel musings on her blog.

POLL: What was your favorite S-E-X article?

WOW!!!  We were surprised and thrilled with the AMAZING variety of thoughts and actions of S-E-X theBrideScoop writers came up with this Friday!

Please let your friends know about theBrideScoop and vote for your favorite!!!  Voting will be open until next Friday, August 26, 2011, at midnight CST.

Travel Messiah: Spice up your sex life with travel!

Does your sex life need a little pick-me-up?  If so, there’s nothing like a new and exciting destination to get you in the mood.  It doesn’t have to be a big, well-planned vacation.  In fact, it should be the opposite.  A quickie weekend (pun intended!) to a different locale is all you need.  Let your mind wander.  What is your fantasy destination?  An exotic beach, a mountain retreat, dining and dancing with your sweetie in a big city?

Sexy Travel Togetherness (Photo from www.news.travel.aol.com by Getty Images)

The good news is that many online travel booking sites offer deeply-discounted, last-minute travel options.  For example, at Kayak Buzz, just enter your airport and your max price, and you can generate a list of the top 25 cities or the cities with the lowest fares from your airport.  Other sites to check out are Fare Compare and airfarewatchdog.  Also check out last-minute packages at websites such as Expedia, Hotwire and Travel Ticker.

Once you’ve booked your getaway, keep it low stress and high romance.  Don’t plan anything but your arrival and departure.  A little spontaneity goes a long way!  Pack light (really, how much clothing will you really need?) and plan to leave your electronic devices at home (or at least turn them off!) so nothing will interrupt your us time.  Focus on each other and live in the moment because that’s really all we have!

Our Travel Messiah, Beth Smith, will introduce you to places you have only dreamed about.  Please follow Beth on facebook and twitter or visit her website or read more of her travel musings on her blog.

Travel Messiah: Asheville, N.C.

Asheville has been nicknamed Land of the Sky, Paris of the South and San Francisco of the East.  Combine those and you have a glimpse into one of the most diverse and vibrant small cities in the South.

Romantic Asheville
If you want to be pampered, look no further than the Grove Park Inn and Spa, a four-diamond, Historic Hotel of America and a premier wedding destination that offers a number of wedding packages.

Weddings at The Grove Park Inn Resort & Spa (Photo from www.groveparkinn.com)

For a taste of Europe, visit Biltmore, the family-owned, French Renaissance château-style retreat of George Vanderbilt, which opened in 1895.  Did I mention there’s also a winery?

Asheville Nightlife
Stay at the Hotel Indigo, whose bar, 151 Boutique Bar & Kitchen, is popular among locals and visitors.

Asheville is home to nine microbreweries.  They’re open to the public on weekend afternoons and often have live music.  Lexington Avenue Brewery is both a brewery and a bar.  For a complete list, visit Romantic Asheville Beer.

Let’s not forget wine!  Asheville has a number of wine bars, including 5 Walnut Wine Bar, Santé Wine Bar and The Battery Park Book Exchange & Champagne Bar.  For other libations, visit Sazerac and the Sky Bar, atop the historic flatiron building, for the best view in town.

Asheville’s Great Outdoors
Asheville, located in the Blue Ridge Mountains, is a stop along the Blue Ridge Parkway and close to Chimney Rock Park, Grandfather Mountain, and Mount Mitchell, the highest peak in the east.

Our Travel Messiah, Beth Smith, will introduce you to places you have only dreamed about.  Please follow Beth on facebook and twitter or visit her website or read more of her travel musings on her blog.

Introducing Beth Smith – Travel Messiah

We are beyond thrilled to announce our newest contributing writer – Beth Smith as our Travel Messiah.  She lives in Bristol, Virginia and has a wide variety of interests including wine, languages (French and Spanish) and fitness walking.

Beth Smith (Photo by Brian Hale)

Beth will be featured monthly on theBrideScoop.com to share her thoughts and tips on travel.  She says, “I’m a both a linguist and a travel enthusiast, so I am thrilled about the opportunity to share my love of travel through the written word to the readers of theBrideScoop.”

Please follow Beth on facebook and twitter or visit her website or read more of her travel musings on her blog.

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