I remember exactly where I was that day, teaching a Spanish class via compressed video to another community college. My tech support guy ran in and switched the channel of the broadcast monitor to the Today Show. My classes locally and remotely just sat and stared in shock at the monitors and I had to dismiss class early. After class, I kept trying to call my boyfriend in New York on my cell, but I couldn’t get through. Finally, he called me and said, “I don’t want to tie up the lines, but I am OK”. I was never so relieved in my life.
September 11 changed many lives forever - in the most cruel and horrible ways. It also dramatically changed air travel. I was scheduled to fly to Washington, DC the week or two after for a doctoral degree meeting at George Mason University and to meet my boyfriend. I still had to attend the meeting, but my airport, Washington National, was closed. US Airways rerouted me to and from Washington-Dulles instead. I have to say that was the most quiet air travel itinerary of my life. The planes were eerily quiet with very few passengers and I could feel the fear around me. Once I arrived at Dulles, no one was in the terminals. You could have heard a pin drop it was so deathly quiet. On the return, I remember seeing guard-like police with guns everywhere and the beginning of the invasive searches and patdowns that have become commonplace today.
For a short time, my flights to and from New York to connect with my boyfriend were also different. For what seemed like forever, I could still see the dust and smoke at Ground Zero when I flew into LaGuardia. But gradually, over time, the area became dark. There was always a moment of silence and a sense of togetherness among the passengers on my New York flights. People were more quiet, sensitive, kind and polite to each other. The tragedy brought us together in a way that no other event has.
There are so many feeling stirred up inside of me as I write this, 10 years later. I am still brokenhearted for the families who lost loved ones. I long for the freedom I once felt when I flew. I wish people were still as kind to each other now as we were in the months following September 11, instead of so politically divisive. Indeed, September 11 changed this nation and we see and feel the effects in our lives every, single day.
Beth Smith
C’est Beth Personal Travel Assistant









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