The changing season often inspires people to make changes within themselves. So, this fall, if you want to make a change, go through a break up.
There’s nothing in the world that will make you become less of the person you were than that feeling of rejection, disappointment and loneliness. A break up will make it so you don’t even recognize yourself anymore.
Of course, this only lasts a few months until you end up in another relationship and go back to your old unloveable habits of codependence, passive aggressiveness and projecting self-doubt onto your partner.